tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post116063189974708456..comments2019-11-12T06:08:59.908-06:00Comments on Thoughts of a First Wife: Venahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15011130955742407024noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-55459736334960145382007-06-16T18:39:00.000-06:002007-06-16T18:39:00.000-06:00As salamu alikum sister.....I settled on seeing my...As salamu alikum sister.....I settled on seeing my husband every other day. This way I get to alternate days each week....meaning if she has his sunday (his day off) this week then I get it the next week. It was also the Sunnah that the Prophet (saaw) used to do it a day at a time at each wife's house. Also it is better because then the children will get to see their father everyday. If I was toVenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15011130955742407024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-73362545831363711752007-06-16T17:18:00.000-06:002007-06-16T17:18:00.000-06:00Salam alaikum sister so this post was a while ago ...Salam alaikum sister so this post was a while ago and while I'm reading it I'm wondering what you settled on? I would possibly do the 2 - 2 thing. I want to know what works as I will have to know pretty soon!<BR/><BR/>Salam alaikumMuslim Flowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17821764266465553069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160899762727008202006-10-15T02:09:00.000-06:002006-10-15T02:09:00.000-06:00I don't know I think it would be more efficient to...I don't know I think it would be more efficient to have some sort of central living arrangement. I.E. A very large house so that each wife could have their own "Wing" or a parcel of land with several houses so that each wife could have their own space. Or a duplex or multifamily home, or lastly houses on the same street.<BR/><BR/>The Prophet used to go around to all of his wives throughout the Muhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160700388906921622006-10-12T18:46:00.000-06:002006-10-12T18:46:00.000-06:00Well there u got it...SURVEY SAYS!! Ur right on t...Well there u got it...SURVEY SAYS!! Ur right on the ball.....Safahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03753208969449031396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160678203102079262006-10-12T12:36:00.000-06:002006-10-12T12:36:00.000-06:00Asalamalaykom Vena,I'm dealing with custody and vi...Asalamalaykom Vena,<BR/><BR/>I'm dealing with custody and visitation, etc. and have been for six years. I've also been a teacher and seeing what it does to other children as well.<BR/><BR/>I can only speak about how it is with the kids...since I don't share a husband...yet and hopefully I never will.<BR/><BR/>Kids don't deal well with every other day. They deal better with three here and three Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160676175262228532006-10-12T12:02:00.000-06:002006-10-12T12:02:00.000-06:00Subhana Allah I just asked my Dh to consider chang...Subhana Allah I just asked my Dh to consider changing our 3 day switch today!<BR/>I wanted to do 2 & 2 weekdays and then 3 for the weekend which rotates every other weekend. Because of the 3 day switch one of us will be seeing him more on the weekends in different months. In this month alone I saw him at the beginning of the month on a Friday 6th but I don't get to see him again on the weekend Home School Highhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09788030467399235790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160652333816461422006-10-12T05:25:00.000-06:002006-10-12T05:25:00.000-06:00I was thinking that three days may be too much for...I was thinking that three days may be too much for you as well. Especially with the kids. I was looking for something I had read on Islamonline...but can't seem to find it. It was a sheikh who advised a man who had two wives...one with all the kids, and the other with none....he said 4 days/3 days. Being....3 days each for the wives and that 4th day being for the kids. The brother should be Safahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03753208969449031396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1160649171910819292006-10-12T04:32:00.000-06:002006-10-12T04:32:00.000-06:00I couldn't go 3 days without hubby. You get more d...I couldn't go 3 days without hubby. You get more days in a row but you also have to go more days in a row without him. I told hubby we would have to live in 1 house so I could see and talk to him everyday, even if I only got to sleep with him everyother night I need him home everyday. How do you feel about not seeing him 3 whole days?polygamy loverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11245091670297879652noreply@blogger.com