tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post115604388631834744..comments2019-11-12T06:08:59.908-06:00Comments on Thoughts of a First Wife: Venahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15011130955742407024noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-13369379117981259572008-07-25T11:19:00.000-06:002008-07-25T11:19:00.000-06:00I feel like I'm reading my own future should my hu...I feel like I'm reading my own future should my husband take a second wife! He wants to, but I just know I'd never be able to accept it. Sad, but true: I want to be his everything, nut I know I'm not.Eillemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11264645420804888036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-90599256990602597652007-06-26T16:10:00.000-06:002007-06-26T16:10:00.000-06:00This post of yours is how I am feeling RIGHT NOW! ...This post of yours is how I am feeling RIGHT NOW! I'm tired, Vena. And I've stopped saying that its shaytan or nafs.....it's the truth. <BR/><BR/>I just don't know who I can talk to. I don't have a wali....and my husband isn't in Egypt.....Safahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03753208969449031396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1156875344799319832006-08-29T12:15:00.001-06:002006-08-29T12:15:00.001-06:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1156875337509139802006-08-29T12:15:00.000-06:002006-08-29T12:15:00.000-06:00Asalamalaykom,I have to say that my biggest fear i...Asalamalaykom,<BR/><BR/>I have to say that my biggest fear isn't how he will act in this relationship, or how she will act, but rather how I will act. I don't want to become a bad person. I don't want to be mean and ugly. That fear keeps me from completely relaxing into this deal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1156247871792732812006-08-22T05:57:00.000-06:002006-08-22T05:57:00.000-06:00Salaam Alaikum,I think it is very easy for us to s...Salaam Alaikum,<BR/><BR/>I think it is very easy for us to say it is shaytaan behind our actions because that is an "Islamically acceptable" excuse, as opposed to simply taking personal responsibility and working harder to change our shortcomings. I am glad to see that you question this yourself. Insha'Allah questioning is the first step towards conquering and you will get a better grip on your PMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06039810429646916382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32207826.post-1156219043753933052006-08-21T21:57:00.000-06:002006-08-21T21:57:00.000-06:00Ya habiti. I know it is HARD to be patient but Al...Ya habiti. I know it is HARD to be patient but Allah is the best of planners and he will Insha'Allah give you what is best for you and your children. I will tell you like I have told many of the other sister if you ever need to talk just let me know and I will send you my email address.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com